Monday, October 18, 2021

FDA Moves to Allow Crossover/Mixed Vaccination Boosters ...

 


Like I said this morning, in my post about Colin Powell - and as I questioned in an earlier post on boosters - moments ago, the FDA is now moving to the vote to allow people to cross-vaccinate, meaning if you got the J&J one shot and want Pfizer or Moderna's booster, it's possible you could have it. 

This is because after Pfizer's small study not showing definitive outcomes with results in the efficacy of boosters, Moderna then came in with a larger and more comprehensive study, proving their vaccine  lasted the longest of the three and protected the best against variantsand J&J's vaccine (which is a basic "live-strain" vaccine rather than mRNA-based like Pfizer and J&J) had the shortest-term efficacy of the three vaccines - but also, and most importantly, Moderna's study proved that all 3 vaccines waned in efficacy, over time.



I'm wondering if Colin Powell's death spurred this along, because I knew it was being discussed, especially with 80-year-olds who were fully vaccinated being mostly the ones actually critically ill/dying of the variant (although the unvaccinated are still 11x more at risk) - but now, they're  pushing forward with this sooner, rather than later?


PS - Here's a new chart from the CDC, which shows the risk of death from COVID versus other causes to older Americans, vaccinated or not.




Note the risk of death from COVID VS. other causes of death for age 80+ is almost double for the unvaccinated, and the risk of death from COVID is just one-third to one-half the risk of death from other causes in the vaccinated, over ages 80 and 85+, respectively.









(Sigh) Doctor's Office Waiting-Room Political Conversations ....

 

So I went to my doctor today, to get my blood sugar and A1c checked (as I'm prediabetic), after losing my 23 COVID pounds and being back down to baseline weight (121 pounds) -  and after my visit, I went to sit in the lab waiting room.

I feel like I handled this pretty well (after finally learning how to), but things went like this:


Old Man on my Left:    "Well, he's cutting all of the energy programs, so of course the price of gas is going up."   

 

Middle-Aged Lady on My Right:   "We need to get him out of there.  He doesn't know what he's doing."


I'm just sitting there, in the middle of them.


Now, I'm  thinking to myself:  "Where's my phone? lol.  I want to pretend to be too engrossed in it to notice or get roped into this conversation.  I'm about to get my blood sugar checked and I don't want it to spike from THIS shit, today, I just don't want get involved and don't want them to involve me."


 

Old Man:  "How much do YOU pay to fill up your car?"

 

Oh, shit - too late. 


Me:  "I think about $35?"

 

Old Man:  "See, Biden's making the price of gas go up with cutting back oil business for that environment bullshit. That cost comes back on us, see."

 

Okay, well, first of all, the president, Republican or Democrat, always gets blamed for gas prices, though the president has shit to do with gas prices - gas prices, like insurance rates, go up based on that gas corporation's whim, and most environmental policies that aren't done through EOs (which have very little power) must be passed into law through Congress, and they haven't yet.

But I didn't say that.

And yet he was still looking at me to say something.

 

Me:  "Well, higher cost of energy is true, I guess.  They also go up immediately, any time there are problems in the Middle East, that's the first thing oil companies do, justified or not, it's their excuse -  and you know, Afghanistan."

 

Old Man:  "Well, he messed that all up, too, didn't he?  Man is incompetent, them poor people over there in Afghanistan."



New Man comes in and sits across from me, looks left and right, then rolls his eyes with a sly smile at me.

Good - I now have an ally, in the room, if this goes too far South  - literally lol 




 

Me:  "I don't know, I agree with Biden in that I don't think there was ever a good time to pull out, but we should - but it was messier than it needed to be, that's for sure.  Not that I have the answer as to how it should've been done."

 

New Man:  "Nobody does, that's the thing.  We complain a lot, but nobody wants to admit what you just did - they don't have the answer, either."

 

Old Man:  "Well, I sure as fire have more sense than that idiot."

 

Me:  "Well, my husband is a retired Army ranger, who knows a lot more about this stuff than I do, and he says we've been there long enough, nothing's getting better, and they didn't want us there anyway until after we said we were leaving, we weren't accomplishing much, and there was no good time to pull out - but he agrees it could've been done in a less messy way."



*Crickets* - that shut them up, for sure - because I'm quite sure not a one of us sitting in that room was a former Army ranger. 



You see, when in Kentucky, saying, "My husband is a retired Army ranger and he says ..." is a bit like those old EF Hutton commercials, where everyone stops talking and listens? lol.



Me (continuing):  "I just think it's odd, everyone was all anti-Muslim, "fear the Muslim" and now, suddenly, those same people supposedly care about "the poor people of Afghanistan?" 
"I've always cared about the people of Afghanistan, but this isn't really about the poor people of Afghanistan anyway -  this is about oil rights and always has been." 
"So perhaps we need to start investing in other energy sources besides oil - then there'd be less conflict in the Middle East, at least over oil -  but then there's still religion to fight about, I guess lol."

 


New Man:  (*snort* - stifles a laugh.) 

 

Me:  "But maybe that's just me, knowing what my husband went through, and losing many of his friends, I want to save our young men to fight another day.  Just because my husband's indestructible doesn't mean everyone is lol."


Middle-Aged Lady:  "Yep, that's just your love for your husband and others who serve talking, that's all that is. Your husband was over there?"

 

Me:  "Yep, for just a little while, and before that Somalia, the Congo, Latin America in the 80s.  Long before I met him, but I definitely listen to him about this stuff."

 

Old Man:  "Yeah, that's a mess too, in Africa."



Translation?

People with darker skin are bad and need to be monitored by the American military.  

Sigh.  

Awkward lull. 


Me:  "So are you all from Lexington or central Kentucky?"

 

(All):  "Yes."  

 

Me: "I just ask because I know some people travel in from other places in Kentucky and was wondering if the leaves were changing where you are yet, we're late this year." 

 

Middle-Aged Lady:  "I've got a couple of maple trees, just now changing.  I wonder if the gorge is changing, they usually change first." 

 

Me: "See, that's what I was wondering, to go maybe this weekend to see.  Or Shaker Village, my husband is from Detroit, and Michigan can do no wrong, in his eyes, but he loves Shaker Village, that's his favorite place here." 

 

Old Man:  "I haven't been there in 20 years, it's beautiful there, I'm glad you mentioned that, my wife and I should go back."


Mission accomplished - conversation change successful, Old Man less angry :)

There was almost a redirect by the old man, but I know how to deal with angry old men.  

 

Old Man:  "Speaking of the military, Colin Powell died today, did y'all hear about that?" 

 

Me:  "I know! Isn't that crazy?  Talking about my husband being indestructible, I thought THAT man was indestructible.  He did NOT look 84." 

 

Old Man: "I'm 83 and knocking on wood." 

 

Me:  "Are you?  Well, you might be indestructible, too.  You know what it is -  it's that purple mask you got on, must be lucky, I like it."

 

The room laughed, including the old man :)


Old Man (Laughing):  "Yeah, my wife got this for me somewhere. I don't normally wear one, but they make you at the doctor.  It may be lucky after all hehehe." 

 

Me:  "See? She knows.  I want a purple mask, too, then!  Purple is my favorite color anyway." 



And then we all wished each other luck and good days when called back for labs :)


And THAT, ladies and gentlemen, is how I've finally learned to deal with political conversation in Kentucky doctor's office waiting rooms,  redirecting angry old men, all fired up after watching too much Fox News, who just want something to be mad about - change the subject, find something common-ground and positive to discuss - but most importantly, make sure to make it something positive about them, give them the attention they want, only make it (sincerely) positive - whew :)






General Colin Powell, Dead at 84, from COVID-19

 



RIP, Colin Powell - didn't always agree with him, but at least he followed his personal convictions, rather than popularity, to be sure.


He was fully vaccinated and died of breakthrough infection.

As we know, the CDC has published data suggesting that most deaths from COVID-19 among the vaccinated are over age 80 (thus the FDA's approval of a third Pfizer booster shot for them, with Moderna's on deck for approval, and J&J's next.), and that most people younger than 80 that have been vaccinated have mild symptoms.

The CDC also has published data suggesting that Moderna's vaccine has slightly longer effectiveness (which I posted previously), and is considering allowing J&J people to be cross-vaccinated with other brand vaccines (which you may recall was another question I had in those posts about the third shot, whether we could cross-vaccinate at some point).


So, here's what we know  ... that vaccine efficacy IS starting to wane, and apparently wanes over time, and that at some point, we're going to need something else - hopefully a booster with added genetic variant material, rather than the same exact formulation.

It's possible, even likely, that a third shot of the exact same formulation will at least temporarily boost immunity, it's just the small study didn't definitively prove it. 

This is why we wear masks though vaccinated, people - to at least offer some physical barrier protection.




Sunday, October 17, 2021

We Finally Figured Out Who Ted Lasso Reminds Us of ...


... just today, and wondered if other people thought so ...





Yep ... because someone made this picture ... HAHAHA!


Homer Simpson's neighbor, Ned Flanders, on The Simpsons - only Ted Lasso is 10 times smarter and funnier than Flanders lol.


What's hilarious is, Mark and I came up with this idea separately, on the same day.


Don't get us wrong, we LOVE Ted Lasso (I'm in love with everyone on it except Nathan) - in fact, it's our favorite show - but the character of Ted Lasso reminded me of someone, but I couldn't put my finger on who he reminded me of.


Then last night, I was watching "Werewolves Within" - which is pretty good, by the way -  it's like Northern Exposure with werewolves - both hilarious AND scary - and yes, that IS "Lilly," the AT&T girl, Milana Vayntrub - thinking about how Park Ranger Finn was called "pathologically nice" and had a sort of Ted Lasso thing going on (but not exactly)  ... 




- and then it came to me who Ted Lasso reminded me of - Ned Flanders.


Then just a few minutes ago, Mark said, "I finally figured out who Ted Lasso reminds me of ... Flanders, from The Simpsons."


Hahaha!


Me:  "YES - hahaha, OMG, hilarious, that's SO funny - I was just thinking the same thing this morning, when you are at the barn!  Hilarious that we figured that out on the same day."

 

Mark:  "Really?  Nuh uh, I thought of it when we watched the last episode, so I figured it out first." ;)

 

Me:  "Oh yeah?  I thought of it before the second-to-last episode ... pthbbbbt.

 

Mark:  "Oh yeah? Well, I thought of it last season."

 

Me:  "Oh, well, I thought of it before Ted Lasso even came out, in premonition."



???

LOL!

None of that last part is even true, of course - we were just playing around, acting like kids playing the one-up competition, to the point of not even making sense - just to make each other laugh.



However, what is true is we both thought of it separately, on the same day, for some reason.   

We saw the last episode of the season a week ago, so I'm not sure why we were even separately thinking the show, other than I explained how I came to that above (Mark isn't sure what prompted him to think about that). 


Funny, isn't it, the synchronicity of thought that married people get into? :)


Then we googled "Ted Lasso Ned Flanders" to see if other people thought the same thing?

Yep.  

Apparently, months before we did lol.


Again, I can't tell you how much we both love this show, and how it deserves every Emmy it swept - both men and women love it.






Ted Lasso - bringing back kindness and acceptance of awkward/quirky/weird to the team of humanity -  with a sense of humor :)






Saturday, October 16, 2021

Georgia VS. UK, Watching Our Car Tonight, and Jeff Foxworthy on College Game Day :)




 


So I'm watching College Game Day, with my husband, who's a football fan (me, not so much), plus MSU plays Indiana just afterwards - and they're in Athens, Georgia for the UK VS. Georgia football game. 


Comedian, Jeff Foxworthy, famous for "You might be a redneck" jokes - who is from Atlanta and a Georgia fan -  just opened his guest picker speech by saying:


"If you just became aware that there's another sport besides basketball, you might be a Kentucky fan."


HAHAHAHA!







BTW, there's a Georgia fan behind them, holding up a sign that says:


"If you have to two teeth and date your sister, you might be a Kentucky fan."


HAHAHA again!


Even though I went to Kentucky and am a huge Kentucky basketball fan (not so much football, as I said, they stop and start too much and I get bored, possibly having sports ADHD and needing fast-moving sports like basketball, hockey, and soccer) - I also have a very healthy sense of humor -  and that's hilarious!


AND, might I add, I hope for our car's sake that Georgia kicks our asses tonight -  only because of what happened, last week (see earlier post this week), when Kentucky won.


Our fans are legendary for getting vandalistic nuts when we win anything - i.e. jumping up and down on cars and setting things on fire.


(BTW, I can also attest, as a former cocktail waitress while a student at UK - when we lose, UK fans are actually less likely to vandalize - they just openly weep a lot, and don't tip their waitresses lol)


Plus I'm totally in love "UGA," the Georgia bulldog mascot.




Look at him in his Nike Georgia swag - hush your mouth, Lee Corso (who has previously called him "ugly")  - Uga is adorable! 

Hesagudboy! 

AND all 5 commentators - including Lee Corso - just picked Georgia to win, by the way.

(But we're still totally watching our car tonight, in the unlikely event that there's some fluke, like all Georgia's players get injured in the first half or come down with COVID before the first half or something lol.)

__________________________


PS By the way, Jeff has said that none of the memes featuring him slamming Democrats, quoting him, is legitimate - he doesn't mix politics with his comedy, he says, because it would alienate half of his audience.


PPS - Kentucky lost to Georgia, 30-13.   Whew, our car is safe lol!





Friday, October 15, 2021

FetchRewards.com

 


So my boss just sent me another legitimate site for money-saving while shopping online besides Rakuten -  and unlike many of these apps, you can use it along with Rakuten because it's after purchase.

It's called "FetchRewards.com".




Basically, you earn points on everything you buy from a vendor who has partnered with them -  including grocery items (like P&G products) - and even prescriptions (with GoodRx coupons)!

After a certain amount of points, the vendors send you gift cards ranging from $20 to $100!  

You do this by linking your Amazon account and email for scanning of digital receipts or taking a picture of and scanning your paper receipts (like grocery receipts).

I just got 4500 points for the Christmas stuff I've already bought this week during the Rakuten Rebate deal!  

Easy.  Done!

It's actually kind of fun!

The little dog runs and "fetches" deals for extra points ...





(That's because its CEO and creator is Wes Schroll owns a Great Dane ;)





PLUS - the technology is kind of amazing, blows me away.

Listen to me, I sound like I'm about 90, "Those crazy kids and their new-fangled technology" lol

But seriously, I'm amazed -  you snap a picture through the app, it scans your receipt from  the picture, looking for store name, date, total, and brand names, and lets you know immediately if you're eligible for points (and just about everything is, including groceries).

For example, after taking pictures of my Kroger receipt, it gave me 25 points for shopping there, and 77 points for buying Starbucks coffee there - instantly.


Thanks again, to L (and her bargain-guru friend) for letting me know about this, this is awesome!






Thursday, October 14, 2021

PS - Examples of Cultural and Socioeconomic Bias Still Existing in the Mental Health Community


As mentioned below, though I've mentioned many times that I think there are great therapists, out there (I have one), I also think the our mental health community overall still somewhat semi-consciously enables some of the worst aspects of our culture and our broken economic system.

In fact, you would be amazed at the number of wealthy people given more mild, socially acceptable, temporary, and/or victim diagnoses versus poor people, and how many men are diagnosed with more mild, socially acceptable, temporary, and/or victim diagnoses versus women.


How do I know?


I first noticed this during my initial education in clinical social work,  after reading the few studies that exist on it and we discussed it in class - and since then, I previously typed notes for inpatient hospital admissions for 25 years as a medical transcriptionist - including psychiatric admissions. 

(For the past two years, however, I'm a pharmaceutical transcriptionist for an independent marketing firm, transcribing interviews between pharma and payers or clinicians.)

I could give numerous examples, but one example in particular stood out as the most glaring example, when I typed two notes on the exact same day, one after the other, for a behavioral health center in the Midwest, which perhaps best illustrates the socioeconomic and gender bias - and it was just about 4 years ago (but was memorable as the most obvious and best example I have ever typed).

But before I re-transcribe these two consecutive reports from memory for you, there's a few things you need to know first.

First, you need to know the diagnoses field in psychiatric inpatient reports goes like this:


DIAGNOSES: 

AXIS I - Clinical biological/neurological/chemical conditions or disorders.

AXIS II - Personality disorder and/or mental or emotional retardation.

AXIS III -  General medical conditions.

AXIS IV - Psychosocial and emotional stressors.

AXIS V - Global Assessment of Function (a scale that assesses the patient's currently ability to function). 


Secondly, you need to know that the gender of the clinician didn't make a difference - male and female clinicians equally seemed prone to this bias - women were just as "guilty" of this as men.

Most importantly, you need to know that these are not exact copies of the original reports - these were retyped based on memory (they were that memorable).


PATIENT A:  
HISTORY OF PRESENT ILLNESS:  This 15-year-old white female was admitted after telling her mother of passive suicidal ideation without a plan, as well as thoughts of self-harm in the form of cutting.  
She states that she had these feelings for a long time, but initially didn't tell her mother for fear of burdening her, going through a divorce and financial struggle. 
She attempted to talk to a guidance counselor at school, but abruptly ended her appointment, stating she felt like she was whining, after the counselor seemed dismissive and didn't take her seriously.  
She said she finally told her mother because the thoughts were starting to scare her, and she didn't know "the right way to tell people how bad she felt inside" or what to do about it, and expressed perhaps she was "just lazy, stupid, and crazy."  
She states that she has always struggled with self-esteem, chronic emptiness, and a sense of abandonment, especially when her parents separated, and that she can't remember the last time she felt happy, but only just recently was having suicidal thoughts and thoughts of self-harm.    
She has been sleeping 16 hours a day, not showering, and overeating.  She struggles with shame from overeating and her appearance.  

 

SOCIAL HISTORY:   She was an average student previously, but her grades have dropped to failing, mostly due to not attending school.  She formed childhood friendships, but claims to have lost all of her friends after isolating herself, and "not being normal" like they are.  Her mother appears supportive and concerned, but admits she has to work much, and the father is uninvolved due to a new relationship. 

 

PHYSICAL EXAMINATION:   Patient is alert and oriented x3, disheveled in appearance, morbidly obese.  Pupils were equal, round, and reactive to light and accommodation.  Cranial nerves II through XII are intact.  Mood is sullen and withdrawn, and she gives rare and brief eye contact.  When encouraged by her mother to speak and express herself, she speaks, but becomes tearful, emotional, and increasingly agitated and  animated; however, this examiner was able to redirect her, assure her of treatment, and calm her down.  By the end of the evaluation, her mood had improved and she appeared to brighten.  Judgment and insight are poor, thoughts were  tangential and somewhat disorganized.  
She appears to show no remorse for the suicidal gestures with her guidance counselor and mother, and openly admits she still has suicidal ideation, but no plan.

 

DIAGNOSES: 
AXIS I:      Rule out bipolar depression. 
AXIS II:     Rule out borderline personality disorder.

AXIS III:    None.

AXIS IV:    Recent divorce of parents, family financial issues, weight gain.

AXIS V:     GAF score not assessed.  

 

 


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PATIENT B 
HISTORY OF PRESENT ILLNESS:   This 16-year-old white male was admitted after his teacher noted that he had carved the words "I WANT TO DIE" on his arms.    
He also expressed aloud to his class that he had a gun and was either going to kill them or himself.  
He admitted to this examiner that he had no gun, he didn't mean it, and admitted he did it to "get attention" and "get more help."  

 

SOCIAL HISTORY:  His parents, who were both present during the examination, were supportive and attentive, and stated that there had been no recent changes to the family environment.  They stated he often does and says things like this at home, but this was the first time he'd done so at school.  
The parents stated that there were no known triggers, other than they'd noticed it was at its worst when he felt they were giving more attention to his brother than him, and when he was "bored."  
The patient corroborated his parents' perception, stating that though he likes his brother, he can't stand when he gets more attention than he does from his parents, and they "have a very competitive family." 
When asked if the patient ever became aggressive or violent, his parents stated that his only aggression was directed towards his brother, in the form of sudden outbursts, and that he had engaged in kicking, punching, and hitting him, which the patient corroborated, stating he doesn't hate his brother, he just hates the attention he gets.  
He added that he has trouble concentrating for too long, and often does these things out of boredom.  
The patient and his parents stated that he was previously a straight-A student and on the honor roll at his private school, but recently states he has been bored in class and not provided with enough intellectual stimulation.    
He denies trouble with sleeping too much or too little or changes in appetite.

 

PHYSICAL EXAMINATION:   Patient is alert and oriented x3, well-groomed in appearance.  Pupils are equal, round, and reactive to light and accommodation.  He gives good eye contact with the examiner throughout the examination.  He is wearing a short-sleeve shirt, and his arms are covered with cuts, including the words "I WANT TO KILL MYSELF,"  which prompted this visit.  His wounds were treated by the medical staff.  Mood was stable, but  he appeared anxious and fidgety.   Judgement and insight are intact, thoughts were linear and goal directed.  He stated that now that he was receiving attention, he felt better. 

 

DIAGNOSES:  
AXIS I:      ADHD, rule out ASD (autism spectrum disorder). 
AXIS II:     None. 
AXIS III:    None. 
AXIS IV:    None.  
AXIS V:     GAF not assessed.




Now, I realize I wasn't there to witness either patient in person, and that there may have been things they didn't mention, because they have to be careful as these are legal documents, so I'm only basing this on what was dictated.

But does anyone else but me see what's wrong with this picture?

So let me get this straight ...

The 16-year-old private-school rich boy literally carved "I WANT TO DIE" on his arm, then wore a short-sleeved shirt in the winter so everyone could see it, and announced loudly to his class that had a gun (but didn't) -  gets nothing but ADHD and possible autism?

But the girl that told two people privately she was having suicidal thoughts that scared her is being ruled out for a personality disorder?


I literally was scared for both of them, after typing these, for different reasons - afraid the girl was going to suicide, one day, being dismissed, and the boy was going to hurt someone else one day -  particularly his brother!?!

And what are they going to say, when these things happen - "Oh, the poor thing had ADHD and autism" - despite the fact that people with those diagnoses don't usually hurt other people (or at least mean to) - and "Oh, well, she was a borderline and beyond help anyway. She threatened and then finally did it, big surprise, who cares."

No - neither of those responses is okay - and proof of enabling a sick, biased culture.


Okay, in case you're still clueless as to what's wrong with this picture after pointing out the most glaring aspect first, here are more problems with how this was handled, despite known protocols to prevent these biases that were not used:


First of all, no one should be diagnosing anyone with a personality disorder - male OR female -  before at least the age of 18, perhaps even 21 (or even 26, considering we know now the human brain isn't fully developed until then) unless they've actually committed a victim crime like murder or rape.

Because diagnosing a teenager with a personality disorder is like pronouncing a lifelong sentence or branding them with a scarlet letter,  male OR female.  It's like sending a teenager to adult prison for life, over an impulsive teenage mistake, that he or she may actually feel remorse or even shame for later, as an adult. 

(In fact, this is the reason why our criminal justice system sends teenagers to a juvenile detention center, rather than adult prison, and why juvenile records are sealed.)

Clinicians know better, they've been educated and trained against doing so (or at least I was), and yet they continue to do it - often because of pressure by the parents - or the teachers - to diagnose them with something and want them medicated.


Because we know that teenage hormones are crazy, they're just learning how to cope with the world, how to regulate emotions, and how to express them more appropriately than as a child, and the consequences of not doing so, as well as we can never underestimate children modeling the behavior or adults in their immediate environment, but learning other ways of coping from others, over time.

In fact, there's some movement in the psychiatric community to wait until 21, or even age 26, considering what we know now about the human brain not fully developing until age 26 via CAT scans and SPECT scans.


Secondly, why is she under suspicion for bipolar disorder, when apparently at some point, she clearly stated "she can't remember the last time she felt happy," indicating she did not experience any manic episodes?


And her motivation for suicidality isn't rejection or abandonment, which is a prerequisite of borderline personality disorder - it's feeling trapped in her current weight and life?


Thirdly, why is he suspected for an autism spectrum disorder when he gave eye contact the whole time (and she didn't), when inability to sustain eye contact is a known feature of autism (as well as depression and anxiety)?




So, here's some background.


It is well known that almost all patients diagnosed with borderline personality disorder are women, and that almost all patients diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder are men.


This, of course, is gender biased, unfair, and untrue - I can guarantee you I've met men who are suspect for being borderlines and women suspect for being narcissists, and I'm sure whomever is reading has, too.




But let's presume that's true - that more women are borderlines and more men are narcissists.


Why would that be?


Gee, it wouldn't be because our culture favors assertive men with the outward appearance of strong self-esteem, and vilifies assertive women with strong self-esteem, creating personality problems, would it?


Nah, of course not ;)




Also, until the DSM-V was published in 2013, the criteria list for borderline personality disorder was 14 items long (the longest of any personality disorder) and included things like "promiscuity," when no such feature existed on any personality disorder for men.


This aspect of the disorder in particular was a subject of debate in the mental health community for years (I remember a heated class debate about it an abnormal psychology class in college, with many young women objecting to this item, and the male professor agreeing it was sexist, but that was the criterion by the DSM-III, at that time).


Also, before the DSM-V, it became a well-known problem in the mental health community that when a female patient expresses suicidality or engages in self-harm, regardless of age - or when they don't feel like the patient is progressing (which could be due to their own incompetence) - or even when they simply don't know what to diagnose a patient with, but have to put something on their insurance claims to continue to pay for therapy - clinicians would previously throw them in the grab-bag diagnosis of borderline personality disorder.


Now, that is not to say that there aren't real bunny-boiling, fatal attraction borderlines, out there, that hit the full criterion, there certainly are - but the psychiatric community finally realized this was being overly diagnosed - much like bipolar disorder was being overly diagnosed in the 2000s, and autism-spectrum disorders are being over-diagnosed today.


They also finally officially recognized the gender bias that existed in that diagnosis, and after further trauma studies, that suicidality among women was not always in response to rejection or abandonment, and did not automatically mean a personality disorder. especially in teenage females.

Also, they felt the criteria for the disorder was too long, and in fact, noted that most American women hit at least 4 of the 14 points - i.e. chronically low self-esteem, feeling of emptiness, self-sabotage with success, feeling "invisible" to others, and postulated this may be a cultural problem that needed further study (and boy, are they getting those studies now, after Trump lol).


Thus, to their credit, in 2013 with the DSM-V, they shortened the list - and either took certain points out completely (like inability to take responsibility for behavior, because that's become a common American problem for both men and women), or revised them.


For instance, the "promiscuity"  language was changed to "excessive sexual behavior," and is now listed under the umbrella of "impulsive behavior," rather than being off as its own criterion by itself.


The "suicidality" and "self-harm" aspects were clarified in that they must be in response to perceived rejection or abandonment. 

This is because we learned more about suicidality in women and trauma (more about that below), as well as clinicians saw that self-harm skyrocketed in teenage girls and gay boys in the late 90s and 2000s, which disappeared by adulthood.  They also discovered self-harm occurs in both male and females, often as a secret behavior rather than a manipulation, and for those engaging in it past their teenage years, it's found even in actually in high-functioning people as a way to deal with stress or shame after trauma with burdening others. 

(For example, workaholic Lady Gaga has admitted to self-harm, which began after her rape 15 years ago.)



These changes have occurred because we have studied more about trauma, especially after the Iraq/Afghanistan war. 

As a result, we've learned the most common motivation for suicidality in most women (and gay men) is NOT rejection or abandonment, actually, nor always a manipulation -  the motivation is often the same as heterosexual men - trauma reaction and/or he or she either feels either "permanently damaged" or trapped in a situation from which they see no way out.

The only gender difference appears to be that women are statistically more likely to seek medical care in general versus men. 



And yet, we, as a culture, still cling to these antiquated ideas about men and women, nonetheless, even in clinicians who supposedly now know better, as you can see above.




Now - why does this happen?


Well, IMO, as I said, the psychiatric/psychological community is still semi-consciously enabling our broken socioeconomic culture which assumes that wealthy people - especially white males - are sane and stable, and thus receive temporary or mild, less stigmatized diagnoses - even PTSD is considered by our society as more justified in male soldiers versus women who have been raped or abused, and is empathized with more.

The other problem is, as you can see in AXIS V, the psychiatric/psychological community focuses their definitions of mental illness solely around a patient's ability to function in daily activities and in society, as well as their grooming and their mood during the actual session (as you can see in the PHYSICAL EXAMINATION).


(Mind you, judgment, insight, and thought processes are not assessed by any sort of objective testing tools, they're a subjective assessment by the clinician.)


So essentially, if a person either has great-paying commercial insurance or pays out of pocket for the full fee (to avoid a psychiatric claim on their insurance), never misses work or school, appears well groomed, and never cries or seems angry during a session (even though that's the goal of therapy, to uncover those raw emotions), then they're perceived as "stable" in mood and function, and thus less likely to receive a diagnosis.

Never mind they could be terrorizing everybody else in their home, class, or office so badly that they end up seeking therapy - according to mental health definitions, they're stable, simply because they can function - which essentially only means they eat normally, sleep normally, shower, and go to school or work everyday.


So guess who gets diagnosed with something chronic then?


Their victims :)



However, I can report that I know a few therapists who started to wake up to these issues in the psychiatric/psychological community, after Trump - realizing how many people assumed wealthy people, especially white men, were sane, despite obviously unhealthy behavior - and are beginning to reassess whether "global assessment of functioning" may not be the best indicator of mental illness, after all, because they may be treating the the victims of the sickest power abusers in society.


Clinicians have already known for years that the sickest power abusers in our society never see the inside of a therapist's office, or at least don't stay in therapy, because they think it's everyone else with the problem, and others' reactions to their behavior are "oversensitivity," "weakness," or "they're crazy, not me."


If the wealthy do enter therapy, many expect to be coddled, waited on, and patted on the back, as if therapists are their servants, because they're paying them - and many therapists comply, do nothing but tell them they have every right to everything they do, rather than confront them on their behavior, out of both assumption of stability and fear of loss of a big paycheck.



For the record, I wouldn't trust any therapist that never confronts me, because they're not being honest, we all can be shitty sometimes.


Plus being confronted is the only way you'll see change, which is what therapy is for - to change your behavior, since you can't always change your environment.


Even if truly a victim of something, a good therapist will confront you on overly avoiding things or handling things in unhealthy ways, and new coping skills to handle these feelings.




Regardless, I think we can all agree that our society is sicker than ever - and IMO, we're not going to see any marked improvement in the antiquated cultural ideas until the mental health community itself recognizes its own socioeconomic bias - and if you've got a good therapist, they'll admit this exists to you.


I think a good indication that there may be change on the way, however, is how many therapists openly expressed in articles their shock of how much sicker society as a whole was than they realized, after Trump.


Because remember, they're only seeing those that seek help, and the sickest people out there never will ;)

























Other Driver Deemed to Be 100% at Fault!

  Oh, thank the Lord, and I mean that! I mean, we knew it was, but ya never know with insurance companies.